The goodnight thread, and now...VR! Anyone else into it?

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Fri, 06/21/2013 - 21:33 (Reply to #1651)
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Well there you go, been a while since you did any moderating as well cheeky. Now I'm not wishing to have a go that was tongue in cheek in the same way your reply was. I am only expressing an opinion, but that is the kind of response I am talking about, no rational defense of the forums policy of letting threads get to the point where locking is necessary. There is a debate to be had here, the resent spate of anger and vitriol has been allowed to get out of control. I have tried a couple of times to open that debate with a leading post, offered to have it behind closed doors via PM.  The response? None.

There was a thread prior the the Xbox announcement that illustrates the point nicely, it was a thread created to supply links to information, in no time it was allowed to degenerate into another slugging match and ended up locked. On that thread I suggested it was edited back to just the links, and any further off topic posts just deleted.  A perfectly rational course of action that would have allowed that thread to remain open and be an informative part of the site. Instead it was just locked and left to rot.

Now things can carry on the way they have, or they can change. V3 was an opportunity for change and to some extent change happened. I was dragged kicking and screaming out into the wider world of 2o2p from the privacy of what was a closed forum, I was active in there, I'm active out here. Part of what I did in 2O4F was get involved, shake some trees to see what fell out, harassed the admins, started balls rolling...Well now I am out here doing the same. Your choice is to either help push the ball, or be the wall that it stops at.

Where would you lock them?  Discussions are ok, even if people don't agree with each other.  I'm only going to step in once people start being dicks towards each other.  And honestly, I don't feel like reading all that nonsense.  If there is an issue or something you see wrong, contact a Mod.  I look at those threads and my head spins.  It's a fucking video game console and not anything of real importance.  At least that's how I look at it.

Would you like a tighter or looser based mod system?  

Anyway, I've been massively busy with my kids and sports.  Both boys are in AAU Basketball (very high level) and that pretty much took all my time since February. It's finally (thankfully) over.   Also, my youngest is on a travel soccer team which is always doing something or other.  Just RL shit.

Sat, 06/22/2013 - 09:22 (Reply to #1652)
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KnightofRedemption wrote:

...I was dragged kicking and screaming out into the wider world of 2o2p from the privacy of what was a closed forum, I was active in there, I'm active out here.

Do not mistake this with arguing or disagreeing with anything in your post Sir Knight. Just want to mention that no one is forcing you to come out into the shit storm that we've recently witnessed outside of our Forza forums. Stick to Forza and your PC forums and you wont get as stressed or atleast refrain from responding to anything out here in, if you'll excuse the ironical jab, "Lala" land cause you know enough now that it rarely ends well for you. :)  

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I look at those threads and my head spins.  It's a fucking video game console and not anything of real importance.  At least that's how I look at it.

Exactly!

Fri, 06/21/2013 - 14:56
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Me too Knight.. I love tekillya!
Fri, 06/21/2013 - 14:58
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Besides Gunny, Poor grexy needed the penicillin shot after the LAN.  I'm not sure what was in your coffee (mud) but he has never been the same.  He can only handle so many roofies.

Fri, 06/21/2013 - 14:59
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This is probably the last time ill be on til Monday so.... BYE, Bye, bye!! Have a great weekend everybody :D

Now where's that penicillin....

Fri, 06/21/2013 - 14:59
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Lmao.. ROOFIES
Fri, 06/21/2013 - 15:19
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Wonder if we'll get firery explosions and crashes in Fm5?

thinking bout you Gunny! Get that Acura sorted?

Fri, 06/21/2013 - 16:26 (Reply to #1658)
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Wonder if we'll get firery explosions and crashes in Fm5?

thinking bout you Gunny! Get that Acura sorted?

Ouch? Lmao.. Its prob true! If i'm going out, I'm GOING OUT BIG! Bling... See myfire?
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I'M thinking if it ain't fun it won"t happen. But Iread it Knight!

Fri, 06/21/2013 - 16:15 (Reply to #1660)
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I'M thinking if it ain't fun it won"t happen. But Iread it Knight!

Sigh...Yes you are right of course, though how letting folk make complete dicks of themselves can be decribed as fun....Okay forget I started that sentance.

Sat, 06/22/2013 - 08:07
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Okay here is the post I made on the links thread before it was locked that sums up how I see things in context.

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Arse that means I have to post here again and go completely OT...So given that it has happened twice, it is safe to assume any thread on the subject will go the same way. No moderating, passive aggressive posts...lockdown. The role of admin is not the same as the role of moderator, they are distinct and separate. A good admin is not by default a good moderator.

A good moderator would have stepped in as soon as the thread started to go the same way as a previously locked one and follow this line...Private warning, post deletion, final private warning, short time out and as a last resort a temporary ban.

This last step is where the admin come in. On the advice and reasoning of their moderators they are the ones that issue the ban. Short time outs should be within the remit of the mods.

This way threads stay on topic, rarely if ever need to be locked and busy Admins don't need to be bothered by day to day moderating tasks, and can get on with the job site maintenance.

Or you can leave it as it is. All the same to me smiley

Oh final thought, delete OT posts back to the ones containing relevant links, leave it open and just keep deleting OT posts, people will get the message in no time.

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Worth noting I was right and another two threads were locked after going through exactly the same sequence of events.

The fact you say you say you don't feel like reading all that nonsense is...well lets just say that comes with the territory. it's exactly the Mods job to read all that nonsense, and step in before it gets out of hand. As for reporting posts to a moderator, that seems to result in someone coming onto the thread and throwing their weight around and telling people to stop acting like fucking dicks...We can see how that works out.

Forum moderating is a job, like any other job it has a clearly defined and easily googled set of responsibilities and action parameters. Most of the time this forum ticks over nicely, but when it doesn't the cracks show, the lack of  standard moderation practice allows threads to degenerate into slugging matches that are just allowed to continue until someone...ususlly LB of late, jumps in at full volume and locks.

Sat, 06/22/2013 - 20:49 (Reply to #1662)
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KnightofRedemption wrote:

Okay here is the post I made on the links thread before it was locked that sums up how I see things in context.

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Arse that means I have to post here again and go completely OT...So given that it has happened twice, it is safe to assume any thread on the subject will go the same way. No moderating, passive aggressive posts...lockdown. The role of admin is not the same as the role of moderator, they are distinct and separate. A good admin is not by default a good moderator.

A good moderator would have stepped in as soon as the thread started to go the same way as a previously locked one and follow this line...Private warning, post deletion, final private warning, short time out and as a last resort a temporary ban.

This last step is where the admin come in. On the advice and reasoning of their moderators they are the ones that issue the ban. Short time outs should be within the remit of the mods.

This way threads stay on topic, rarely if ever need to be locked and busy Admins don't need to be bothered by day to day moderating tasks, and can get on with the job site maintenance.

Or you can leave it as it is. All the same to me smiley

Oh final thought, delete OT posts back to the ones containing relevant links, leave it open and just keep deleting OT posts, people will get the message in no time.

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Worth noting I was right and another two threads were locked after going through exactly the same sequence of events.

The fact you say you say you don't feel like reading all that nonsense is...well lets just say that comes with the territory. it's exactly the Mods job to read all that nonsense, and step in before it gets out of hand. As for reporting posts to a moderator, that seems to result in someone coming onto the thread and throwing their weight around and telling people to stop acting like fucking dicks...We can see how that works out.

Forum moderating is a job, like any other job it has a clearly defined and easily googled set of responsibilities and action parameters. Most of the time this forum ticks over nicely, but when it doesn't the cracks show, the lack of  standard moderation practice allows threads to degenerate into slugging matches that are just allowed to continue until someone...ususlly LB of late, jumps in at full volume and locks.

 

You have no idea how moderation on 2o2p works, do you? 2o2p is not a heaviliy moderated site, we're not going to read and ok every thread.  We will allow heated converstations to continue with the hopes that ADULTS can work it out.  

What do we mod?   Read the TOS to find out.   We don't step in unles there's a direct attack, racism or hate.  Unless that happens, it's fair game to me.  Also, please don't tell me what I should or shouldn't do.  While I can't be bothered reading the bullshit in those posts I am well aware of 3 mods that are all over it.  Deep NNN, Dixon and LB. How do I know?  I asked them in site chat.   Shit, even Doodi popped in.  I'm pretty sure they have it covered, but thanks for being concerned.  As far as LB locking threads, consider it like childern being put in timeout.  

If the site was to be heavily moderated then this very post would be locked as it serves no purpose other than to boost post count.  None of us wants that.  

Sat, 06/22/2013 - 21:05 (Reply to #1663)
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Lala Calamari wrote:

KnightofRedemption wrote:

Okay here is the post I made on the links thread before it was locked that sums up how I see things in context.

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Arse that means I have to post here again and go completely OT...So given that it has happened twice, it is safe to assume any thread on the subject will go the same way. No moderating, passive aggressive posts...lockdown. The role of admin is not the same as the role of moderator, they are distinct and separate. A good admin is not by default a good moderator.

A good moderator would have stepped in as soon as the thread started to go the same way as a previously locked one and follow this line...Private warning, post deletion, final private warning, short time out and as a last resort a temporary ban.

This last step is where the admin come in. On the advice and reasoning of their moderators they are the ones that issue the ban. Short time outs should be within the remit of the mods.

This way threads stay on topic, rarely if ever need to be locked and busy Admins don't need to be bothered by day to day moderating tasks, and can get on with the job site maintenance.

Or you can leave it as it is. All the same to me smiley

Oh final thought, delete OT posts back to the ones containing relevant links, leave it open and just keep deleting OT posts, people will get the message in no time.

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Worth noting I was right and another two threads were locked after going through exactly the same sequence of events.

The fact you say you say you don't feel like reading all that nonsense is...well lets just say that comes with the territory. it's exactly the Mods job to read all that nonsense, and step in before it gets out of hand. As for reporting posts to a moderator, that seems to result in someone coming onto the thread and throwing their weight around and telling people to stop acting like fucking dicks...We can see how that works out.

Forum moderating is a job, like any other job it has a clearly defined and easily googled set of responsibilities and action parameters. Most of the time this forum ticks over nicely, but when it doesn't the cracks show, the lack of  standard moderation practice allows threads to degenerate into slugging matches that are just allowed to continue until someone...ususlly LB of late, jumps in at full volume and locks.

 

You have no idea how moderation on 2o2p works, do you? 2o2p is not a heaviliy moderated site, we're not going to read and ok every thread.  We will allow heated converstations to continue with the hopes that ADULTS can work it out.  

What do we mod?   Read the TOS to find out.   We don't step in unles there's a direct attack, racism or hate.  Unless that happens, it's fair game to me.  Also, please don't tell me what I should or shouldn't do.  While I can't be bothered reading the bullshit in those posts I am well aware of 3 mods that are all over it.  Deep NNN, Dixon and LB. How do I know?  I asked them in site chat.   Shit, even Doodi popped in.  I'm pretty sure they have it covered, but thanks for being concerned.  As far as LB locking threads, consider it like childern being put in timeout.  

If the site was to be heavily moderated then this very post would be locked as it serves no purpose other than to boost post count.  None of us wants that.  

 

Sweet Jesus the post padding is ridiculous here, too.

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You have no idea how moderation on 2o2p works, do you? 2o2p is not a heaviliy moderated site, we're not going to read and ok every thread.  We will allow heated converstations to continue with the hopes that ADULTS can work it out.  

What do we mod?   Read the TOS to find out.   We don't step in unles there's a direct attack, racism or hate.  Unless that happens, it's fair game to me.  Also, please don't tell me what I should or shouldn't do.  While I can't be bothered reading the bullshit in those posts I am well aware of 3 mods that are all over it.  Deep NNN, Dixon and LB. How do I know?  I asked them in site chat.   Shit, even Doodi popped in.  I'm pretty sure they have it covered, but thanks for being concerned.  As far as LB locking threads, consider it like childern being put in timeout.  

If the site was to be heavily moderated then this very post would be locked as it serves no purpose other than to boost post count.  None of us wants that.  

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Heh, well that tells me, it's our playground and it's all perfect as it is. Yeah read the TOS by the way.

"We will allow heated conversations to continue with the hopes that ADULTS can work it out."

"As far as LB locking threads, consider it like children being put in timeout."

No contradiction there.

I was not telling you, simply outlining how I felt the silliness seen over the last couple of weeks may have been handled differently. Not heavy moderation, just some moderation in specific instances.

Feel free to remove me from that "Top Members" list by the way, if you are under the impression that means anything to me or that I care about post count.

Ah well, nuff said. 

 

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Nooooooooooooooo I dont want t o read about that stuff in this thread as well. This is the safe place! 13

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Matt Likes Beer wrote:

Nooooooooooooooo I dont want t o read about that stuff in this thread as well. This is the safe place! 13

Don't worry Matt, I get on my soap box once in a while, it's my thread so I feel entitled, but we will soon be back to whatever passes for normal soon enough smiley

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Who said I was stressed? I'm not in the slightest bit stressed or angry or wound up in any way. I see a what to me is a problem and I, as is my want give an oppertunity to discuss my views and offer up solutions. They can be debated or ignored, but silent I cannot and should not be.

Yes in a way I was forced out, I didn't want to be, but that is water long under the bridge.

Yes Parcells I could indeed retire back to quieter corners, but be fair, does that sound like the Knight you have come to know? wink

 

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If he went silent he'd pop from the back pressure...

Sat, 06/22/2013 - 10:09 (Reply to #1669)
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Oldschool 2o4f wrote:

If he went silent he'd pop from the back pressure...

LOL too true

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WHO THE HELL COMES TO THIS SITE TO BE QUIET?! On another note.. Good morning.
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I passed normal this morning. It felt good!
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I passed Max last Thursday night and that also felt good. (just to clarify it was during a Forza race) . Reading that back there's something not quite right.

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Usually I pass gas, and occasionally Gunny.

Sat, 06/22/2013 - 13:14
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So there you go Matt, back to what passes as normal...Your safe place is quite safe. 34

Sat, 06/22/2013 - 13:29
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Just occasionally? Ha
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I just pass anyone in front of me ;)
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Actually I'm not a Mod outside of the Halo division, like many other Division leaders here.

Lala brings up a lot of good points about the Moderation. I suppose we could try stuff like setting our own limits on post quality but the TOS doesn't really support it. I think Doodirock would like us to be able to try doing stuff our way but if things went wrong, what would we fall back on.

I was in the thick of things these last few weeks and while some of it was fun, I was also infuriated by the poor quality of posts and general meanness which eventually included my own posts. If I were to be a Moderator doing it my way I'd likely start by deleting rotten post content until the poster, learned their lesson, stop posting altogether or left the site. It's not my site to be chasing people away. Good thing I'm not a Site moderator because it would have been ugly. I'd made a bigger pariah of myself than I normally am and probably left the site in disgrace and embarrassment.

Site Mods really stick their neck out everytime they feel the need to step in.

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Site mod is the worst fucking job ever.  You can't win.  The only job worse that Site Mod is being Gunny's Wife.  That poor lady, I feel for her.

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Being a Mod is just something I could never do, Lala is right this site is different than most as we are all adults here and we should be able to work things out ourselves. I have been guilty of reading something then getting annoyed and posting a reply that might be a bit aggressive and in hindsight I shouldn't have posted. In these cases I have  reposted and smoothed it over.

I do think the guys here do a decent job and let things go on long enough for us to sort it out ourselves.  If that doesn't happen I've seen them step in to fix the problem.  One thing though Lala I am upset that you think this thread is just an excuse to boost post count, I have found this thread to be a place where mature and deeply spiritual conversation take place. By just reading this thread I have become a more mature and enlightenment human being so leave it alone.

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