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Happy Valentine's Day 2old2play!  Below are pictures of a couple of the things I got from my man.  First of all, I got him, doing what he does best.  He is playing WoW and had no idea I took this pic.  Ahhhh, this isn't really what he does best. 

Roses, candy and a beautiful card.

Happy Valentine's Day 2old2play!  Below are pictures of a couple of the things I got from my man.  First of all, I got him, doing what he does best.  He is playing WoW and had no idea I took this pic.  Ahhhh, this isn't really what he does best. 

Roses, candy and a beautiful card.

I have been a slacker with my magic clan, so I decided to participate in our current league.  I forgot how much fun magic is.  Sorry guys.  Didn't mean to neglect you!  Well, it helps that I have a "brutal" deck and am winning almost every game!  It also helps to research the playing format a little before deckbuilding.  Standard Singleton is now a legal format, so there are articles to read up on.  I did that, and built my deck accordingly.  KILLER!  Of course, it helps to know how to play the cards.  D'oh!  Some of them I scratch my head and think "well, that didn't do what I thought it w

I have been a slacker with my magic clan, so I decided to participate in our current league.  I forgot how much fun magic is.  Sorry guys.  Didn't mean to neglect you!  Well, it helps that I have a "brutal" deck and am winning almost every game!  It also helps to research the playing format a little before deckbuilding.  Standard Singleton is now a legal format, so there are articles to read up on.  I did that, and built my deck accordingly.  KILLER!  Of course, it helps to know how to play the cards.  D'oh!  Some of them I scratch my head and think "well, that didn't do what I thought it w

Is there any such thing as perfection?  As screwed up as my life is right now, there is one part of it that is wonderful and good.  I have found my soul mate, and in doing so have found the peace I have always wanted so badly.  Yesterday, I drove almost 4 hours in the rain, praying that the temperature would not drop and it would turn to snow or freeze.  Well, I made it!  Got lost again.  Nothing unusual about that!  But, he talked me in on the phone and I arrived in one piece.  From then on, it was the most perfect evening I have ever had.  Why?  Ahhhh, no details, but we went to a party,

Is there any such thing as perfection?  As screwed up as my life is right now, there is one part of it that is wonderful and good.  I have found my soul mate, and in doing so have found the peace I have always wanted so badly.  Yesterday, I drove almost 4 hours in the rain, praying that the temperature would not drop and it would turn to snow or freeze.  Well, I made it!  Got lost again.  Nothing unusual about that!  But, he talked me in on the phone and I arrived in one piece.  From then on, it was the most perfect evening I have ever had.  Why?  Ahhhh, no details, but we went to a party,

Don't get me wrong, life is still good, but there are bumps in the road, and I had one last night.  My stbx and I had our first mediation meeting last night.  It was poor timing on my part cuz it was right after work, I was still in scrubs, and hadn't had time to get something to eat.  Worst case possible.  Is it really all about the money?????  Grrrrrrrrrrrrrr

Don't get me wrong, life is still good, but there are bumps in the road, and I had one last night.  My stbx and I had our first mediation meeting last night.  It was poor timing on my part cuz it was right after work, I was still in scrubs, and hadn't had time to get something to eat.  Worst case possible.  Is it really all about the money?????  Grrrrrrrrrrrrrr

Tonight after work I see my lawyer to start the process of splitting up my marital assets.  Some things will be easy, but mostly hard.  And, after 20+ years, it seems so impersonal, even cold, to sit down with pen and paper and say...this is mine, that is his, we need to sell that and split the money 50/50, etc.  Oh yeh, he will be there, making me a bit uncomfortable.  But, the time has come to move ahead.   I have been separated for a year now.  Wow, time flies when you're having fun!!  And I have met my soul mate.  Who would have thought that 2 people with 2 such different backgrounds wo

Tonight after work I see my lawyer to start the process of splitting up my marital assets.  Some things will be easy, but mostly hard.  And, after 20+ years, it seems so impersonal, even cold, to sit down with pen and paper and say...this is mine, that is his, we need to sell that and split the money 50/50, etc.  Oh yeh, he will be there, making me a bit uncomfortable.  But, the time has come to move ahead.   I have been separated for a year now.  Wow, time flies when you're having fun!!  And I have met my soul mate.  Who would have thought that 2 people with 2 such different backgrounds wo