GUL74's blog

So the nursing home called my mother to say she's sorry about my father passing, of course we hand't been told this. So my mother calls the hospital to check on his status and he's still with us. Keep in mind we are up set prior to calling the hospital my mother's in half tears making this call all to find out some mother fucker gave wrong info to the nursing home not mention the fact that if that were the case why would a nursing home be told before the family???..I mean this bad enough waiting for the man to pass but to tell us something that isn't fucking true??????

So my father has been in a nursing home since April due to his alzheimers/dementia and his other various medical issues that we could not care for. His health has been declining rapidly over the months and its finally come to a head for him. The nursing home discovered he has pnemonia and was very lathargic so they sent him up the hospital and while they were up there they found he has pnemonia on both sides of his lungs his kidneys are shutting down due to dehydration , a unrinaray infection, blood sugar is really high.

Well I packed up all my things and moved on down to my moms. Loading up kinda sucked but at the sametime was good (make sense?) anyways the only issue I ran into was the rain and my back was killing me after all that . So I got my stuff in my moms computer room still gotta hook up the router so I can jump on xbox but for the most part I'm settled in. I'm sitting here still trying to figure this all out and I'm just all over the place about this whole thing,like I have my moments when it I'm ok with it then I just have the sucky moments when it all bothers me.

Well I'm doing a lot better with this divorce then I thought I would, feeling better in some sence ya know. But oddly enough she has decided to play a little game (nothing serious) My soon to be ex has to come back to the apartment to help clean up and to gather the things she wants to send back to Nebraska where she's staying with mom,originally the plan was she was going to get on a plane with mom in tow and spend like 4 days well almost a week went buy with her and I talking back and fourth on the phone and no mention if she booked the flight .

So I was thinking ealier do you feel people are more opinionated online or in person? I started thinking about this cause I was looking at FB,TWITER and whatever else I go on and  noticed that the people that post arent as opinionated in person as they are online..Now I'm sure there are those out there that are the same but if you ethink about how many people grow this anatomy cause they safe in their own home, but get that same person in front of you and you noticed they maybe shy and not really talk much.

So basically everything  I thought of my personal situation has come true the wife and I had talked it out and we are going to go our seperate ways (insert Journey song here) ..The good part of this is we are being 100% civil she's only taking whats hers and doesn't want the $$ in the bank account or the tv's & her laptop became mine .

So I'm still doing my job searching with not much luck, I do have an interview with a Temp place on monday but that doesn't mean a job, a lot of places just take your info call you in for an interview and add you to their files. I really try not to have a grim out look but when the truth is the truth what can you do ?

Just wondering how many people here have elderly parents in nursing homes and what do they do to deal with the situation?

Just wondering how many people here have elderly parents in nursing homes and what do they do to deal with the situation?

Im so tired I try so hard in life and all Ive done is get slapped in the face everytime. Why is this happeneing to me? I didn't deserve this I did my best at what I have to work with and it wasn'tt good enough it never was..Nothing is written in stone yet but I can see the events slowly unfolding and I have to sit in the corner and just wait for it just to be sure ..I use to be happy or blind to alot but now I just see to much and it's beating me down..Im only one man and I can only take so much..Just what did I do??