Why is perception of one self always incorrect?

You know you've done it, someone's said something that they see in you and you dissmiss it because you either don't see it or don't believe it's a problem?

Why is it so easy to do to yourself? Could those comments be made in the hopes to help everything around you, your life your personality, your situation?

Why disregard something that only makes your life better? I need to clean the house more, do some laundry here and there, that would just help out overall right?

See the problem is this, I'm not organized and I'm easily distracted. that's what makes gaming sush a fit for me. I have the ability to see an objective and go for it. It's a line from A to B. If I die, I just start over with the same objective. I'm a problemsolver, so I attack that objective differently. I know the definition of insane, and I am not it, At least in the world of gaming. Ironically, I'm good at leading others to help complete that objective.

In life as a whole, I am none of the above. I can complete a goal, but maintaining it is another thing, I slip and fall more than those kids on America's Funniest Videos. I'm sure that is what upsets a lot of people about me