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Shared on Fri, 11/30/2007 - 08:20



Wouldn't normally blog about something like this...but I saw that pic today and it made me think of it, lol.  The man works with this guy, he is 20 years old married, has 2 kids and one on the way....which sucks already.  He was wanting to come over this way and hang out with the guys, play some video games and such but says he wouldn't be able to because his wife refuses to let him go anywhere or do anything with any of his friends.  I thought everyone was kidding when they would talk about the way she is with him...but I guess not.  The other day she comes into where they work and they are all standing around talking.  The man is a bit sarcastic and well he says, "Can ___ come over and play with us?"  she then told him that "sure, as long as you give him somewhere to sleep, cuz he won't be coming home"  What the fuck?!  Can anyone in this 'day and age' really put up with that kind of shit?  I sure as hell won't...fuck'em!


Happy Friday!!!

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cookieklr's picture
Submitted by cookieklr on Fri, 11/30/2007 - 08:34
Sounds like she is young and still pretty immature. She figures she is getting stuck with the kids all night and where is her time away? Rather than trying to work it out where they can each have their time away, she wants to control his ability to have fun and relax. Sucks majorly though for him. Plus, the hormonal part of being pregnant may be making her a touch more pissy. It sure did me....LOL. I turned into megabitch when pregnant. My family all decided it was a good thing I said I was done after my 2nd son was born. hehe
ixtab's picture
Submitted by ixtab on Fri, 11/30/2007 - 08:38
I don't approve of my picture being used for the cover of this magazine.... other than that its my life to a T I can't remember the last time i did something I wanted to do. if I play xbox too long I have to deal with hours of complaining. I have no idea what my friends are doing. Every free moment I have is spent doing things for the wife or kids( not that I mind the kids, but some free time to myself would be nice). If I'm working she goes and visits her Friends, but when I'm at home I'm expected to take her and the kids wherever SHE wants to go. Heaven forbid I want to go somewhere by myself, WTF my parents weren't this demanding of my time I should have married a Gamer chick.
Mulchinator's picture
Submitted by Mulchinator on Sun, 12/02/2007 - 09:46
2nd marriage? There's the mistake...
AutumnRocks's picture
Submitted by AutumnRocks on Fri, 11/30/2007 - 09:12
itab: Sucks, sorry to hear about that. What ever happened to men "putting their foot down?" That's the kind of behavior you'd epect from a teenage love, but you would think after having two+ children and are married you would get over that. Marriage doesn't work unless there is a simple respect and freedom involoved. When there isn't that's when things go sour.
cookieklr's picture
Submitted by cookieklr on Fri, 11/30/2007 - 09:13
But wait....there's hope! My earlier post, I hate to say, is from experience. And I detested gaming and how much time it took away from me and the kids at first. Fortunately, I got a clue after a year or two. And even better now, I enjoy gaming too, so we both game together, and I don't mind when he wants to go game on his own. And we schedule time away for each of us to get a break from everyone too. Otherwise insanity ensues. LOL
DrPlague's picture
Submitted by DrPlague on Fri, 11/30/2007 - 09:31
Damn ixtab. That sucks.
Nighthawk70's picture
Submitted by Nighthawk70 on Fri, 11/30/2007 - 09:47
You know.. there's a lot of complexity to my life.. one thing is right now.. after a jolt to my life a 4 years ago, I divorced that same type of woman. Now I'm a single dad, and have to pay child support when i have my kids exactly 1/2 the time. But as some say, its the price of freedom! I love being a dad. But I didn't love being treated like I was property and made to feel guilty about everything. I'm on my own now and have never been happier. Some day, I have hopes to find someone special, and hopefully she and I will be on the same page from day one. There is hope, and there IS happiness you just have to want it bad enough to go get it. If you don't respect yourself, when how is she/he going to respect you? Thanks for the post!
Durty's picture
Submitted by Durty on Fri, 11/30/2007 - 09:48
Ixtab...that really sucks.
H2Daddy's picture
Submitted by H2Daddy on Fri, 11/30/2007 - 10:03
Two words explains why he puts up with it.................................. child support.
ixtab's picture
Submitted by ixtab on Fri, 11/30/2007 - 11:51
no its more like..............2nd marriage, don't want 2nd divorce. I put up with it because I'm Tired of Arguing over the small shit. easier to just go with the flow. every couple of months its the same thing over and over again. eventually you just get tired and trudge through with your mouth shut. hell I work a part time job just to get away for a little bit.

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