We did this in a leadership class I once took. The bad part is I didnt see the freaking bear this time either.
I did correctly guess the number of passes though.
Submitted by OldManRiver48 on Fri, 06/15/2007 - 02:04
Having the comfort of distance makes being in denial of her responsibilties of a relationship in this stage and compassion for others feelings easy to shrug.
I dont doubt your choices in this matter, your direction seems appropriate on all levels-dont second guess yourself, your doin fine.
Keep your respect for her and acknowledge her choice of living in the shadows as she prepares for a stealthy exit.
What she's doin makes little sense to me, dont let it get to ya trying to figure it out man.
I doubt she even knows the answers. Hug your boy and assure him that many of us are capable of unconditional Love, and he always has yours-regardless of course.
Since you have to pay for a storage unit why not sell some of her stuff to recover the cost! J/K Hang in their Mass. You know a good "southern" boy like us is hard to find, and she'll realize what a mistake she made.
Don't put her shit in storage. Dump in outside in the rain.
If she's not gonna "suject herself" to your tone, then let her feel the real wrath. Unsheath the sword and let the venom fly.
Make her talk, non of this passive aggressive bullshit. Get in her face. And if doucheboy steps in to "say something", knock his dick in the dirt.
Dude...I can't begin to imagine how you and yer boy are feeling. I know you may not be religious (I dont know), but I'm keeping you in my prayers.
If you need anything or wanna talk, just say the word man.
same here Mass. Hang in there, we're all thinking and praying for you and your boy.
Oh yeah if need be we'll send the goon squad out to make this dude's face a little less pretty if you know what I mean. J/K but seriously if you need anything then just holla.
I'm not talking about like a sack of weed or coming over to sing Kumbayah with you, b/c I am not doing that, but anything else let me know.
Nice Job Mass....Take care of your bizznis and everything else will fall into place.
You did the right thing and Dumped that Bitch..gotta move on for yourself and the boy...
Have a great trip...Make sure you come back with all your digits!!!
have a great trip man.
And Oh yeah do they take paypal at the hooscow? Cause there is no way in hell that I'm flying out there to bail you out man. LOL
Submitted by UnwashedMass on Fri, 06/15/2007 - 15:28
Don't know if she's got another man. But based on her past, she is never alone for long. I worded that wrong, but my intent is still there. There will be no more hurting of the boy. I can take it, but I'm not putting him through it any longer.
And I appreciate the offers, but I've never been worried about handling any of the rough stuff. I know I would not show up intending to fight a man in his own home, but it's backwater Texas and there's all sorts of fuckers out there that want to be the White Knight. Hopefully she won't find herself a stupid one.
Thanks peeps.
Submitted by UnwashedMass on Fri, 06/15/2007 - 15:31
and the storage is going on her credit card, so she knows it's being paid and it is safe. No money out of my pocket and the ball will firmly be in her court.
"Gimme your credit card number or you can find your stuff on Craigslist."
Submitted by OldManRiver48 on Sat, 06/30/2007 - 10:16
she made her choice.-That pretty well says it all. When you've made all the situations available and easy for her to step up to .........she has chosen the lower road. Have fun in Vegas, go to Yolies Brazilian Steakhouse on Paradise road just north of the airport for some great food. Gotta do the "mixed grill".
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