1000 FTW

Durty

Shared on Sat, 01/26/2008 - 21:08
I just hit 1000 pts on here....YAY me!  Thanks to Mulch for pointing that out to me, lol...I wouldn't have noticed for a week otherwise.

On a much crappier note...I got a phone call from my mother at noon today telling me my grandfather wasn't doing so well.  His BP was at 90/40 and dropping...pulse rate was pretty damn low as well.  We don't think he will last through the night so I drove the 60 miles north to see him and grabbed my sister and brother on the way.  Grandpa didn't know who my sister was and was pretty confused while we were there.  My grandmother is not in a good place with it....she is afraid she will go to bed tonight and wake up in the morning and he will be gone.  I can't blame her...waking up knowing that there has been a dead body by you half the night would be fucked up.  The worst though, would be going to bed with the man I love knowing that it would be my last night with him and knowing that after that I would never see him again...that would be hell.  :(

Anyways...send your good thoughts his way that he goes in peace with no pain.  Thanks :)

~Durty

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Mulchinator's picture
Submitted by Mulchinator on Sat, 01/26/2008 - 21:19
I couldn't give a thumbs up to a post like this, but know that my thoughts are with you. Losing a grandfather - or any family member - is way tough, so here's pushing that he makes it through. Take care and know that we'll be here when you need us.
Donk2o2p's picture
Submitted by Donk2o2p on Sat, 01/26/2008 - 22:38
sorry to hear about your grandfather, i'll send some prayers his way.
sicrik's picture
Submitted by sicrik on Sat, 01/26/2008 - 23:29
I'm sorry babe......and I love you
DarthCestual's picture
Submitted by DarthCestual on Sun, 01/27/2008 - 08:40
My grandmother passed away less than a year ago, and it was really tough on the family. Just remember that who we all are isn't the flesh and bones we see every day, but really the cohesive energy that gives us life that some call a mind, soul, or spirit. And energy is forever, it just changes forms from time to time, it's never lost. Be strong.
Waterborn's picture
Submitted by Waterborn on Sun, 01/27/2008 - 10:22
I lost my grandfather and best fried a little over three years ago. I still think about him and miss him daily. He was sick for a long time and I went to see him in Florida every month up until he passed. I was with him about two or three weeks before he went. I met my girlfriend about four months before he passed. She is the love of my life and my best friend now. I really believe that my grandfather hung on until he knew I had found someone who would take care of me. I can't agree more with what Darth wrote above. I feel my grandfather's presence almost daily. Call it what you will, our loved ones never really leave us. Take care girl, I will be sending good energy your way.

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