I hope ya'll thanksgiving was good, to make up for mine...

codemonkey

Shared on Thu, 11/23/2006 - 23:49
Yeah, my Thanksgiving wasn't so hot. I mean, dinner was fine and all that. However, my father and step-mother, who host it, were not there - my grandmother was sick so they took her to the hospital (apparently she's not been eating and was de-hydrated). So, my brother and I hosted the festivities for a few family members. The night got a bit worse when my aunt called to tell us my grandmother, 86 years old, was diagnosted with Leukemia. Wow. Now that's a bit from the norm eh?

I figured, old people get sick, it happens... and its important to get them to care since they're ... well, old. My grandmother is one of those old ladies that really never gets sick, never had any "old people problems" like heart attacks, strokes, alseimers (don't feel like looking up the spelling) or any of that. She was mowing her own lawn up to a few years ago when we tried to explain to her that it might be best if we got her some help around the house with the heavy stuff. She used to have the garbage man start the mower for her on his drive by to pickup the trash :) She's the only lady I know that, at 86, isn't on at least a few med's to help her out. Then, all of a sudden, she's given 3-weeks to live.

Not sure how my father is doing just yet, I know he's not always "in touch" with his feelings and I only talked with him briefly and he was very "matter of fact" about the estimated time of survival. He lost his father to cancer (I think it was cancer) before I was born and this is the last grandparent I think I've got.

Well, its always nice to talk it out. Gonna hit the sack and head over to the hospital tomorrow.

CodeMonkey

Comments

CrypticCat's picture
Submitted by CrypticCat on Fri, 11/24/2006 - 00:05
Wow, that's harsh, dude. I wish you and your loved ones much strength and wisdom. Hang in there!
Falelorn's picture
Submitted by Falelorn on Fri, 11/24/2006 - 00:15
that blows man, take it all in stride.. hope things dont get worse especially before xmas
Gatsu's picture
Submitted by Gatsu on Fri, 11/24/2006 - 01:55
Dont let it keep you down. Stay strong and moving forward. I'll be keepin the situation in my prayers.
pearly_54's picture
Submitted by pearly_54 on Fri, 11/24/2006 - 07:23
Hey guy, this is tough. I am an oncology nurse and leukemia was my specialty for years. I also lost my father at about the same age. He was seen mowing his lawn the day before. He was found "sleeping" in his bed in the morning. So, you are in my thoughts.
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Submitted by rabbmasterflash on Fri, 11/24/2006 - 07:40
man I am sorry to hear that, the rabb family will keep her in our prayers bro

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