Odd feeling about V-day

does anyone else feel like anything you do for V-day is not enough? like I'm saying, "yes my dear, my one and only, I love you $15....because I ran down to the local gas station and bought you some crappy flowers that are already half dead".....or worse yet, if it comes down to the feeling "love you $5,000 tennis bracelet...but there's only $35 in my entire bank account...."

This year, I asked her what she would want for V-day...since I have always spent more than I could afford to, she said, "Clean the house....that's all that I want"...ok, not a problem...so now I feel like crap because I was going to clean the house anyway, because today was my day off, and I always do that on my day off.  So here I sit, feeling like I did nothing even though I did exactly what she said she wanted for V-day...

I know, I know, it's the gesture, and the feelings that count....

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