I GOT IT!!!!
I was approved by the foundation for financial help in paying for the IV treatments at the Cancer Center! It's not the full out of pocket costs, but it's the maximum this foundation gives an individual and it will help a lot....it's enough to pay for the first two treatments and a small part of the third!
I still have no idea when i'll actually be starting the treatments, but i have an appointment with my doctor next week, so i'll see what he says. i know i'll go for a treatment, then two weeks later go again. Then in six months, the same routine. Hopefully the side effects aren't horrible...and hopefully it actually WORKS! At least i'll have help paying for it this first round anyway.
WOOHOO!! Good news for once!! 
Thanks for all the well wishes and stuff...you guys are the best!!