Hallmark Holiday

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nae

OK first off this is a rant,  My opinion regarding Valentines day. When I was younger this day was either to be a raging success or another reason to feel like a piece of crap because i was in between boyfriends,..... As I got older and found my self in relationships I often came upon this day with mixed feelings as well.  Now that I am  a mom of 3 a wifey figure I loathe this day  ((( rant beginning)))


 First off one of several things will happen, You will receive the "flowers" from the poor schmuck that over paid for half dead flowers.


Second you may get Jewelry well sounds good doesn't it.. NO IT DOES NOT.. lol in most cases you can not afford it!!!! they won't "love" it but will wear it because they feel they have to !! and in fact the wife at some point or atleast in my case does the fiances and will see what you paid , and in inside.... deep inside.... will call you an ass and be pissed...never actually saying anything because we know you MEANT WELL .


Also the dinner... love the dinner.. a somewhat good attempt at some time together however every other couple is thinking the same thing.. lines.... expectations.... and lousy waitress tired,... and wishing she had a man or she was home with her MAN! lol


 


So in conclusion for me Valentines days is a dud!!  ((( for me))))YOU WANT TO  see me thrilled and feeling loved..   Take the kids ice skating or to a movie.... so I can have a bit of "me " time lol


Nothing says loving more than sunday morning  with the paper in bed coffee and .. a bagel and no screaming kids!!!! Surprise me and actually put back the seventy five games left on the floor,... rock band drums....beer cans.... find  home for. 


And not on the day you feel you should but randomly!!!!


We don't have money for elaborate things... I dont need a box of chocolates OHHHH WAITTTT maybe godiva mixed box .. those are fantastic lol but see i would be a lil pissy knowing he spent 30 on a box of chocolates,,,


See don't get me wrong i know  its MY fault..   I say do some dishes and you WILL get lucky bring me home flowers chances are I will be to tired lmfao!


getting old and slowly getting poor sucks for romance lmfao!!!!!!


 

Comments (16)

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TANK·
Valentines day sucks. People who are single try and hook up with someone just so they'r enot alone and those who can't justify it in their heads that they're better off anyway and who needs Vday. Couples in young love especially the men go all out spending stpid amounts of money on the occasion with dinner, flowers, gifts whatever all hopefully they'll get some crazy special monkey sex out of their partner. Then married people who are old love who have gone through problems and kids and what not just feell like vday exaggerates the problems in their marriage.\r \r vday sucks, hallmark can shove it.
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Lusetti67·
That blog could have been a PM to Luney : )
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fatLUNCH·
I showed this to my wife of 7 years and she just laughed and said \"I AGREE\"... \r \r Great post!! And hopefully you have a babysitter so you and your hubby can go out.. if not then you are like me and my wife where we have to take our daughter everywhere we go cause we dont have anyone to watch her... :(\r \r oh well.. i guess you can game on V-Day!
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Jedi_Kez·
I always thought this day sucked, dating/single/married. I have never bought roses on this day, and will never to so, evar - huge fucking waste of money. I did, however, make the wifey 12 oragami roses on our first vday - which are still alive and kicking today (like 4/5 years later, lol).\r \r Me and the wife have nothing planned for vday - it's useless to try and go out, too busy at the restaurants, not worth it. If we go for dinner it will be the day before or after vday, lol.\r \r I will, however, get something for the munckin, cause it's like xmas, you buy for the young ones cause it's fun.
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nae·
Tank i agree......and now sweatie luney would do or get me anything but we dont have the money!!!!! so I let him off the hook! Its crap anyway i know he LOves me .. WOULD you tolerate me for 8 years? lmfao
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KittenMag·
I have spent the past 4 V-Days alone and single. It just so happens that I always end up single on those days so I've come to deal with it.\r \r My last bf would go completely overboard and embarrass me at work by sending balloons, stuffed animals, roses, chocolate covered strawberries (ALL on one day!). \r \r I think the best way is to do something together. Find a babysitter and spend the whole day fucking (errr making love?).. that would be the best V-Day EVER!\r \r I'll be at home, with an order of delicious sushi, playing on the xbox. ... ALONE! haha
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nae·
can tell kitten must not have kids and if does god bless you... an all day fuck session when i was 20 would be great but at 32 with 3 kids it sounds like fukn work!!!! dont get me wrong a nice \"luvins\" would be great but shit I don't want to feel like I just got off my elliptical lol\r
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Lusetti67·
How bout a nice romantic blow job ! : )
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KittenMag·
I'm barely able to take care of myself and my cat... yah no kids for me just yet, lol\r \r Tell your hubby what you want =)
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nae·
he knows what i want lol my blog was about SUCK ass commercial holiday lmfao I plan on playing either codwaw or left4dead lmfao!!!! oh and maybe a few beers! or a Mimosa
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Rau·
Last Valentine's day I went to Bestbuy and got my wife a copy of the Notebook. I spent three weeks writting the history of our relationship like in the movie. How we met, the ups the downs, the \"in's and out's\", and how much she meant to me. It cost me a grand total of 5 bucks for the movie, with a side of roses for 20 bucks. I cooked her dinner and added another chapter of ins and outs.\r \r Yeah, it's good to be the KING!!!\r \r
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KittenMag·
But I agree with you. It's a stupid commercial holiday. \r \r I say go with the Mimosa!!
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nae·
lmfao@ rolo..... JEESUS your mushy hell if ryan did that i would ask him if his other girlfriend wrote it. heheheheh lol
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Rau·
If you've seen the movie...he wouldn't be wearing any clothes.
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TDrag27·
Well me and the man use this commercial-fucking holiday as an excuse to eat a ridiculously expensive dinner. And this year we're having dinner at a conservatory full of flowers so half of it is tax deductible!
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nae·
did you really just go TAX on v day kashi lmao \r \r way to be romantical! lmfao