To Ink or not to Ink?!

Ok. So I have this thing for tattoos...i'm totally addicted. I have two so far and i'm in the process of working on my third one. I've gotten my prior tattoos as birthday gifts and I plan to get one every year on my birthday until I decide i'm done. As I said before, i'm in the process of picking out a design for my third tattoo and I have  i'm stuck between a cupcake and lotus flower. Cupcake you say...yes a cupcake..when i'm not sitting in front of my xbox you can find me baking..I love to bake..so I thought i'd get a cupcake. As for the lotus flower, life has been hardly the last couple years and i'm just starting to see the light and thought a lotus flower would be perfect. I don't know i'm so confused.  I honestly don't know what I want, I have so many interests that its kind of overwhelming when it comes to choosing a design. I have a purple and orange star on my back that  I got to represent my sister and I; and on my left arm I have a Dia de los Muertos skull with two yellow roses, I got that one to honor my grandmother. I plan on getting a hummingbird to represent my mom, just haven't found the design for that one. Oh well, I still have 3 months to decide on what to get.