The biggest decision I've ever had to make. This month.

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JPNor

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Over the last few years, I occasionally see a photo of myself and more specifically my scalp and, more and more, I dislike what I see. My hair has been thinning since college but the last few years my hair has seen a recession not unlike that of our nation's economy. I have light hair and in direct sunlight it looks pretty bad.


Every time I see one of those pictures I contemplate shaving my head. In fact, a number of times I've said "one more hair cut then I opt for the Bruce Willis look." I always end up chickening out, cutting it very short, and then resenting myself when it starts to grow in on the sides more than the top.


The longer my hair gets on the sides/back, the more noticeable the thinning/receding top is. If I keep it short, it doesn't call attention to itself but it's still there and it's still noticeable. More importantly, I don't like it. Only two things have kept me from going full-shave:


1. Professionalism. People's opinions and how they perceive a shaved head tend to be mixed. I am a consultant and a sales person, and I frequently have to act as an authority in my field in front of large groups of people. If less people take me seriously because they believe a shaved head is unprofessional, that's a problem.


2. I simply have no idea how it will look. Bruce Willis and Vin Diesel pull it off, but it didn't really work for the kid from Powder.


I'd like to get your thoughts. Here is the picture that I saw that prompted me to write this:
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Zoomed in at a higher resolution, it's worse. I'm fucking bald.

Comments (14)

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YEM·
I think the more pressing issue here is that skin white t-shirt you're sporting :lol:
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ImMrPete·
What about Piccard?
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TANK·
The professionalism hurdle is a big one to get over. Have you tried rogaine? You should try it for a few months and see if it can make a difference for you. If it doesn't work for you, then i'd say you should just make monthly trips to the barber. I don't think for professionalism sake you should shave your head.
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Lunatik-ZX·
shave it
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H2Daddy·
I say shave it. I had long hair (shoulder length until 17 years ago when I started teaching. Started teaching in a small country community and I figured the long hair would not be accepted. I bought a hair clipper set from Walmart and with no guard on, I cut it all off. Every Saturday since then, I give myself a trim. Its not shaved slick but it is short enough. I have a full head of hair and I still keep it short and I think I look professional enough when I have to. I think how you dress is going to be noticed more than the hair. Just my opinion. Good luck.
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omegamaximus75·
I agree with pete Do the picard... rock that shit like only a starfleet captain can!
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NorthernPlato·
Pete beat me to it. If you think shaved won't be professional enough for your field, then go for the Picard. But the Costanza's gotta be stopped in its tracks.
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TDrag27·
Buzz it. It won't look unprofessional.
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redeye·
Off with it.
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MTPathy·
I shave my hair very short, and imo it looks much better then being bald on top with hair on the sides and back. confidence doesnt come from your hair, seriously get a tan start working out and jogging shave that head and be a sex machine.
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Fish66·
Shave, buzz or let whats left grow down to your ass. As long as its clean and looks \"Kept\" it shouldn't be a problem.
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AngryJason·
I say keep it, but keep it well manicured and tight. I'll be in the same boat sooner rather than later, and while there probably is some sort of liberating factor in the shave, I figure it would require much more upkeep than just keeping what you've got neatly trimmed.
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Lbsutke·
shave it man.
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Automan21k·
My barber is a retired Marine, he only knows one hair cut, but he does it well....buzz cut has worked well for hiding my disappearing hair.