No excuses, no forgiveness...

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JollyRoger

After almost 9 years of marriage and 14.5 years of being together, my wife caught me with another woman. I have no excuse for what I have done. I was caught red-handed and now I have no leg to stand on. What's bad is that I love Stacy so much, but yet the love I have for this other woman is steady and can't be broken either. I am deeply ashamed for what I have done and now it is up to her to decide what we take it from here. You wonder how she caught me? She has pictures. I don't know how she got them, maybe a P.I. or a friend, but she emailed them to me today with only this message "I know". I got the email just a minute ago and have yet to call her. I was shocked when I got the email and now I'm just embarrassed. I seriously need help. I love my wife, but I help what I feel for this other woman. Has anyone out there been in the same situation? Please help....the future of my family depends on it.





Here's a pic of that blue-eyed beauty...


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JR

Comments (35)

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thebrigade·
Dump the other woman and beg and plead. Clear choice there. Counseling? A clear message to her of remorse and that you are seeking reconciliation. Wow, man, real deep. Good luck.
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BalekFekete·
JR - get in touch with me.
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DreadPirate75·
All I can say is...go with your gut. \r \r You find that instinct will guide you in the right thing to do.
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thebrigade·
just sooooooo wrong.... :)
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RIGHT_WINGAMER·
You screwed up you know it... just think about 1 thing...\r THE KIDS...do what is best for THEM. Being it staying or leaving.\r \r I sympathize with you and your situation, what your family is going through with Megan it's easy to find comfort in any one's arms. I've seen it all to often before. Good luck.
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Lbsutke·
dude...you are an asshat..I had this pm or rage on it's way to you..my bad for assuming it was something other than a joke..\r \r Sorry JR..
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UnwashedMass·
If that's the pic, you're toying with my emotions. And I shall pwn you in some sort of vague manner that will be decided at a future date. If you're serious, best of luck.
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Liger117·
asshole
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XSSmoke·
JR, you have faith right? Look up and ask.\r \r Damn dude, damn. :/
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TaxiSquad27·
That was completely t0e-riffic.\r \r You douche.
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JollyRoger·
OK OK, I stopped it before it go out of hand. I posted her pic. Sorry to those who offered up their help. I think it was a bit too convincing.\r \r
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Speedbump·
t0e-tastic.\r \r Yes, you're a douche
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DIE75·
I am going to have to beat you unmercifully!!!
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RIGHT_WINGAMER·
DUDE...hook line and sinker. Asshat..
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codemonkey·
mean...just mean.
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XSSmoke·
yeah dude, really bad joke :/
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mrsleestak·
LOL! That's great!
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DreadPirate75·
I've been had! \r \r DOH!\r \r (But it doesnt count because my network at work wont show pics and it sounds like that would have been the tip off)
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DeadDrPhibes·
Nice one, Commander Douchebag!\r :D
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th3midnighter·
I know Ive seen similar posts and blogs on this site where people have actually gone through this for real and for you to use it to get a few laughs is very wrong imo.
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WallyBR·
I'm confused here. Can someone explain what's really going on? Seriously.\r \r Thanks.
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BalekFekete·
Going to be VERY tempting to write you up as my blogs \"Scumbag O' The Day\". \r \r ;-)
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XSSmoke·
you know imma friend JR, but I agree with Midnighter, that is over the line , I honestly got sick to my stomach reading it cuz I was worried for you
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doorgunnerjgs·
JR, you messed up on this one! Shame, shame, shame! Luckily for me, you had already posted the pic, 'cause at first I felt like I had been kicked in the stomach, even though I thought it might be that.\r \r As penance, you should type \"I was a douche bag\" 100 times in a blog. AND you can't use copy and paste or any other means other than typing each and every character.
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JHall55·
they're both cute...keep 'em.
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kevtek17·
yes, please refrain the \"I'm dying and only have 2 months to live\" blog jolly.
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rockcrawler69·
Oh man, everyone just relax.\r Lord knows sometimes you just need a funny.\r \r I don't think JR meant any harm.
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UnwashedMass·
No harm meant, but he's still a butthole! :)
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Stryker927·
Ok, I cried, then I chuckled, then I laughed at responses. Probably was wrong. But I forgive you anyway. :)
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Big0ne·
Nice one Jolly. Should've saved it for April 1 though.
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J-Cat·
One the one hand years of marital bliss on the other hand: is that kid holding a lollipop?\r \r (tres cute)
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dkhodz·
Wolf? Where's the wolf? Didn't he just cry \"wolf\"?
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OrzoKhan·
From someone with such serious posts, you definetly caught us off guard!\r Good to see with all you've been through you still have you're sense of humor!
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Gatsu·
LMAO dude. I knew that was coming.
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Baine·
Dude, she's at least half your age.