Life does not smell like roses PT2

GUL74

Shared on Wed, 09/28/2011 - 13:56

So basically everything  I thought of my personal situation has come true the wife and I had talked it out and we are going to go our seperate ways (insert Journey song here) ..The good part of this is we are being 100% civil she's only taking whats hers and doesn't want the $$ in the bank account or the tv's & her laptop became mine . Now since my unemp has run out and I'm not having much luck with finding a job I wont be able to maintain the apartment the plus to this is I hate the landlord and everyone in it the downside is I have to live with my mom and my brother has been staying there also so that will change few things in my life as it now. I probably won't be on xbox as much but I won't get rid of my account if I can help it and I will still be able post on here so that works out, but now I have to down size everything cause my mom doesn't have tons of room but I will have a roof over my head so thats a good thing. My days have not been easy sitting in the apartment by myself running through memories good & bad and then trying to make it through day . So to answer about the stress question from my previous blog "going through this stress is harder " least to me ..But funny I have to say my wife and I are talking and making sure each other is ok. I guess it could of gone the other way where we got all nasty and just screamed at each other till the end of this, I'm sure some of you on here could tell me some stories . Theres an old saying "When one door closes another one opens" I guess in my eyes this ones being put to the test

 

 

Thanks for listening

Gul74/Eric

Comments

JPNor's picture
Submitted by JPNor on Wed, 09/28/2011 - 14:04
Got another Journey song for you: Don't Stop Believin'. Keep your head up. Can't have rainbows without a little rain, and soon you'll have the chance to enjoy single life once again. Boston women are hot and kind of freaky.
TKBosss's picture
Submitted by TKBosss on Wed, 09/28/2011 - 14:19
A break up is never a great thing, but at least it was civil. It is true about Boston women. At least take a trip there when you can.
IamDank's picture
Submitted by IamDank on Wed, 09/28/2011 - 14:27
keep your head up - things will turn around, be positive mangs
KoldfrontKraig's picture
Submitted by KoldfrontKraig on Wed, 09/28/2011 - 15:03
Yes things will improve. Do the best you can and dont give up bud.
GUL74's picture
Submitted by GUL74 on Wed, 09/28/2011 - 15:03
Thanks guys I really appreciate it ..and you have to find the right freaky one here in Boston..lol
FadeIntoBlack's picture
Submitted by FadeIntoBlack on Wed, 09/28/2011 - 15:17
Good luck man.
Lost_Cannibal's picture
Submitted by Lost_Cannibal on Wed, 09/28/2011 - 16:29
I know where your coming from, I filed for divorce about 2 weeks a ago, and its definitely is not going to be civil 2 kids involved and house plus here family is very well off, its going to be ugly and expensive. But we are both miserable, so there is no other option. So look on the bright side It could always be worse, Good luck to you.
H2Daddy's picture
Submitted by H2Daddy on Wed, 09/28/2011 - 20:18
Hang in there. It sucks but it does get better. If you need to talk, just let me know.
GUL74's picture
Submitted by GUL74 on Wed, 09/28/2011 - 20:26
Thank you all @lost Cannibal I'm really sorry man for what your going through I feel more for ya where there are children involved,let me know if ya need someone to talk to @H2 thanks man I might take you up on that And again thank you all
wamam87's picture
Submitted by wamam87 on Wed, 09/28/2011 - 21:32
sorry to hear about the relationship.just keep your head up and don't let the days just pass by. make the best of the situation and things will turn sooner or later...hopefully sooner.
PeepshowJanitor's picture
Submitted by PeepshowJanitor on Thu, 09/29/2011 - 06:34
When i think of songs about going your own way, i think of fleetwood mac. Sorry to hear about your situation, but in the long run, you'll both be happier! Hope for the best!
GUL74's picture
Submitted by GUL74 on Thu, 09/29/2011 - 07:24
Thanks Peepshow ..Yeah I'm sure will be happier..and yeah good song

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